It is important to appreciate that one of the most important benefits of being more confident is that it naturally helps you become stronger and stronger over time, with everything you encounter and experience, rather than weaker and weaker.
How the effects of low self-confidence weaken you
Consider what happens when you have low self-confidence, and you feel like you can’t possibly accept or handle someone rejecting you in any way.
With this scenario, not only are you terrified of putting yourself out there, and ‘risking’ rejection, but if you are rejected, it naturally feels like a nightmare to you, and makes you even more frightened of risking rejection in the future.
In this way, low self-confidence (or a lack of self-confidence) naturally makes you weaker and weaker over time.
How the benefits of high self confidence strengthen you
Inversely, if you have high self-confidence, you have no doubt that you can easily accept and handle someone rejecting you, and as a result, you’re not afraid or anxious of putting yourself in situations where you might be rejected. And, if you are rejected, you see how easily you can, indeed, handle it, and emerge stronger than ever with such proof of how strong and capable you are.
In this way, high self-confidence naturally makes you stronger and stronger over time.
When you consider all this, it’s a no-brainer: not only is it worth your time and effort to become a more self-confident person, but it’s also worth your time to develop a high degree of self-confidence that will always benefit you in life, and make your life easier and more rewarding in every way.
Do you want to be more self confident?
The most important question, right now, is this: do you want to increase your self-confidence and become a more self-confident person?
This is because the most important factor for becoming more self-confident is to simply want to develop greater confidence in yourself, and to be decisive about taking action to do so, regardless of whether anyone else wants you to become more self-confident or not.
With this clarity of mind, you are already well on your way to developing greater confidence in yourself and your abilities.
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